Love Is A Battlefield

Marriage is never easy. It does take a lot of work. Compromised, patience, understanding and respect towards on and another. My parents been married for almost 32 years now Ive learn alot form them. 

Me and Dani seldom fight. Even we do quarrel and have our differences but we managed to brush it all aside by the end of the day.My dad once said, there will be the time when husband and wife will have those big fight where you will see your significant other in a whole different perspective. I told myself well that me and Dani wont have that kind of fight since we seldom had any fight at all. But i was wrong!

That time came. Me and Dani had our " most big fight ".  It was ugly. Really ugly. I never felt like that before.Daniel and my parents where not at home at that time. But I dont want to get into details. 

But one thing that I would like to point out is that the both of us felt relief afterwards.Its true what people say, the first 5 years of your marriage is hard.There will be ups and down but its up to you whether you want to make it work or not.

After our huge fight, we see our marriage in a whole different perspective. We love , respect each other more than before and we're so glad we managed to get through it.