Pagi tadi aku dikejutkan dengan bunyi budak kecik menangis. Jiran sebelah aku cina. Ada anak kecik 2-3 orang. Usually every morning dengan tengah- tengah malam anak dia mesti menangis. Not like a normal 'im hungry' cry tapi nangis macam kena pukul.
For almost 30 minutes straight nangis tak berhenti. I started to get really annoyed.Sampai tak boleh nak concertrate make up and bersiap nak ke office.Then 5 minutes later aku turun ke dapur buat breakfast, yet the kid is still crying histerical.
My mom was cleaning and rearranging her closet and swipping the floor.
ME : The crying baby is soo annoyinggg....
Mom : Habis nanti dah ada anak nanti tak kan nak cekik anak suruh diam?
Me : Mak kan ada.. Mak jaga la.!!
Mom : Baik mak yang beranak sendiri.
Menjadi mak or parent memerlukan kesabaran yang super tinggi. As for me, tengok dari gaya i dont have kesabaran yang tinggi. Tapo Mr. Fiance is totully opposite. Mr. Fiance memang ikot perangai ayah dia.
Sometimes ive always wonder,can i be a great mother to my kids? Boleh ke aku tahan melayan kerenah anak-anak bila da besar nanti? *im scared*
Mr. Fiance selalu tanya if anak-anak kita orang nakal ikot perangai dia, apa aku akan buat. My answer was.. "hantar balik seremban duduk dengan mak and abah".
Parenting is not an easy work. Its not a part time job and its not something which you can just do it lightly.Being a parents is a big responsibility. Me,Myself and I is no longer your main priority now. Your kids are your only priority now.
Mostly now, i have no commitment other than cars,and other bills and savings. So whatever i have in my hand would be my spending.Handbags, make up, accesories and shoes and all of other stuff.
Then, after married and have a baby, most my spending would be on my baby. Expenses would be double or tripled. Nothing is cheap now. The formula, pampers, monthly check at the hospital, nursery and other stuff.. Alot of expenses.. So no more make up, shoes, handbags, clothes and anything for myself.
Orang cakap rezeki selepas kahwin and rezeki anak mesti ada. So im hoping it come true. =)
For almost 30 minutes straight nangis tak berhenti. I started to get really annoyed.Sampai tak boleh nak concertrate make up and bersiap nak ke office.Then 5 minutes later aku turun ke dapur buat breakfast, yet the kid is still crying histerical.
My mom was cleaning and rearranging her closet and swipping the floor.
ME : The crying baby is soo annoyinggg....
Mom : Habis nanti dah ada anak nanti tak kan nak cekik anak suruh diam?
Me : Mak kan ada.. Mak jaga la.!!
Mom : Baik mak yang beranak sendiri.
Menjadi mak or parent memerlukan kesabaran yang super tinggi. As for me, tengok dari gaya i dont have kesabaran yang tinggi. Tapo Mr. Fiance is totully opposite. Mr. Fiance memang ikot perangai ayah dia.
Sometimes ive always wonder,can i be a great mother to my kids? Boleh ke aku tahan melayan kerenah anak-anak bila da besar nanti? *im scared*
Mr. Fiance selalu tanya if anak-anak kita orang nakal ikot perangai dia, apa aku akan buat. My answer was.. "hantar balik seremban duduk dengan mak and abah".
Parenting is not an easy work. Its not a part time job and its not something which you can just do it lightly.Being a parents is a big responsibility. Me,Myself and I is no longer your main priority now. Your kids are your only priority now.
Mostly now, i have no commitment other than cars,and other bills and savings. So whatever i have in my hand would be my spending.Handbags, make up, accesories and shoes and all of other stuff.
Then, after married and have a baby, most my spending would be on my baby. Expenses would be double or tripled. Nothing is cheap now. The formula, pampers, monthly check at the hospital, nursery and other stuff.. Alot of expenses.. So no more make up, shoes, handbags, clothes and anything for myself.
Orang cakap rezeki selepas kahwin and rezeki anak mesti ada. So im hoping it come true. =)
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