The person we tend to get irritated but Love dearly..

I thinks its normal for any girls out there (especially the eldest daughter in the family) has this same issues with their moms. I like to call it as LOVE HATE RELATIONSHIP. Being the eldest(but technically the only) daughter in the family has given me hell for the pass 20 years of my life. My mom is constantly keeping a close eye on me 247. I think i would understand why since the past experience that ive been through when i was in Nilai College. But no matter how many times i told her that its has been ages since the last time it happen, yet she still bugging me. She constantly reminding the things which im trying my hardest to forget.

Dont get me wrong but i do love my mother very much and i would kill for her anytime but she needs to learn that im getting older by the day and she needs to stop treating me like im 6 years old.Yes im always mak n abahs' lil girl but not so little after all..

Theres alot of things that she could make me upset from time to time. Sometimes i feel like my mom is not aware of her daughters feelings at all.There's afew example :

Situation no.1

Mak : Nape balik lambat? banyak sangat keje ke? Macam mane nanti kalo da ade husband?
Nanti bile da ade anak? sape nak jage? Maid ke?

Me : I just got back from work mak. Can u just let me chill for a while then u cant
start nagging about marriage?

*bare in mind.. This situation took place when i was 21 years old.. YES!!!*

Situation no. 2

Mak : Bile nak kawin?

Me : sorry to say this mak, but im lesbian.

* my statement only rises whenever im so fed up with her question. But hardly happen nowadays becoz i caught her crying after i said those words*

Situation No.3

This things happen when my ex boyfriend came to meet my mom for the first time at KLCC

Mak : Kamil, bile nak nak abes belajar?

Kamil : lagi 4 tahun mak cik...

Mak : Habis, 4 tahun la zara kene tunggu kamil ?

Me : Maaaaaakkkkkk!!!!!

*this situation took place when me n kamil knew each other only for 2 months.*

These are afew examples on how my mom constantly irritates me on daily basis.But those days was the worst. Now as she gets older, there are stil afew times she pisses me off.

My mom has OCD. She'sa cleanaholic. She cant stand it if the house is messing, the clothes are not fold properly or even if the kitchen is not properly clean. She vacuum the house 2 times a day.. YES!!! not 2 times a week but 2 times a day.

Me on the other hand, love to do things on my own terms. I took the time to do things.Depending on my mood. There are times where i'll be extremely lazy where i just be in bed until 2-3pm.I just get out from my room only to bath n pray. THATS ALL!! But when im in the mood to do things, i'll clean the house from top to bottom.I even force them to lepak at the mamak so that i can clean the house without them disturbing me. Whenever im in the mood to cook, i wont let anyone enter the kitchen. I dont even let them in if they needed a glass of water. I asked them to wait.All this happen ONLY when im in the mood. Thats me!

But mummy on the other hand, she's love to clean. Whenever im in my lazy mood, is she asked me to clean my room, i just shut down! For example this morning,I took ages to get ready to work. Mom was shouting asking me to go to work sedangkan its only 820am in the morning. Usually i leave the house around 8.40am... Then as i was about to leave, she enteres my room and start nagging again becoz my room was a mess. My make-up are everywhere and afew clothes i tried early on i didnt hang them back...hehehe :)

The best side about mummy

Whenever im really tired after along days at work n class at night, sometimes if die larat, she will drive to mamak n buy me something to eat if i havent eaten the entire day.But bile aku cakap aku x larat, mak akan suapkan. Becoz she knew i wont say no to it. Dulu mase belajar kt nilai college, every week aku balik putrajaya, mak akan make sure lauk ikan keli mesti ade.every saturday. Then petang die akan ajak pegi Alamanda jalan2.Out of nowhere, die akan offer nak mandikan aku n basuhkan rambut.Even i was 19 that time, sometimes mak akan mandikan aku.. Jangan jeles!! hehehe...

When times im feeling down, she has her own way of making me feel alot better.She always say the right things.Not just to me, but to abah as well....

Yes.. moms can be overbearing at times. But moms always be moms. I cant lie to others and say i never had a fight with my mom. We fight everyday. Tapi bile mak xde kat uma if die ikot abah pegi outstation ke or die balik Johor or even pegi vacation ngan abah and aku kene duduk puchong sesorang, i started to miss the moments where i had a fight with my mom. I still remember bile mak n abah pegi umrah bulan march aritu.. They didnt call me for almost 3 days. Bile one night mak call, i straight away crying sebab rindu...

Abah siap cakap..Bile mak ade depan mate, suke gadoh ngan mak. Bile xde mak kt uma, nanges cam kambing... hehehe... yep! Thats my relationship with me n mak. I think smpai ke tue kot aku jadi camtu. Even im super close with abah, but i need mak all the time... Dani told me if we get married, he wants to settle down in Sungai Petani. Then i told him, i dont mind but make sure once a week i kene balik jumpe mak n abah.Becoz regardless im married that time, i need them!!