The Birth Story.

My first pregnancy was a bit rocky to say the least. As my mom would say ' mane die reti duduk diam-diam. Ade aje bende die nak buat dan bertukang '.Lols! Sorry Madre'.My last week before delivered i was cleaning the whole house, washing mine and husbands car and re arranging our bedroom. You see! This is want my mom meant by bertukang.

Ever since before im for one whos not keen on just sitting and watch tv all day. Ive always voiced out my concerned to husband. How the hell im going to survived my confinement days. Sheesh!

During my pregnancy, ive a very stranged addiction towards Coke. I can drink up to 3 cans of Coke a day. Please dont even dare to do the same thing as I did.

So on 2nd March, everything was normal.Went to work, went out meeting afew people and settling afew things before my long break. As i reached home, i had a major migraine. Then later that night, i was puking my lungs out.All my dinner was apprently in the toilet that time. Called Husband and let him know but my mom said no point waiting. Packed my stuff and off we go to the hospital.After Doctor Raja informed me that I had to go for an Emergency C-Section, i was completely crushed.Was hoping to spend afew days with my Husband before Baby due date and also i was blaming myself for pushing my pregnant body too hard and now i basically putting Baby D is harm.

Around 11.30pm Husband shows up and he stayed at the hospital with me. We talked and laughed as always. He knows i was worried and the both of us are scared. Then he said he was hungry and he asked if I want to eat anything before kene pantang. Wrong questions to asked a pregnant lady my friend.hahaha!

the night before. McDonalds.In the Labour Room. :P

After our late supper, Husband lay down on the floor next to my bed. Then one of the Nurse came in and offered my husband a few sheets of blanket and pillows. Hahah...

The next morning around 8am , my mother arrived. My mom was worried at that time She was feeling abit down for God knows why. Then around 9am, i was prepped and they ready to pulled me in the OT. I asked husband if he wants to come in to the OT with me. He was a bit reluctant and scared so i told him no need. 

The experienced wasn't that scary to me.The process took only 20-30 minutes. By 10.05am my Doctor told me that my baby was out.I was screaming 'Gile cepat doctor!'. A few nurses in the OT was laughing. Then 3 minutes later, one of the nurse showed me this tiny little guy.

" Puan, meet your baby."  She opened the cover sheet and showed me his penis.

" Lelaki kan puan?"...Yup thats my son.

Then as the Doctor stitched me  up, i was feeling very sleepy. Not sure the effect of the drugs of what.Then later on they took me back to the Labour room. 2 hours later, the pain starts to kick in. My Godness it was the worst feeling ever. The pain is something else. I can feel my stomach is moving by itself as if Baby D is still in there. My husband and my mom was at home that time since Husband dont have any changed clothes. I was all alone, screaming, crying. All by myself. 

I was texting my Husband every 2 minutes. Then by 2pm He was there. Seeing his face that time was a huge relief .I asked the Nurse for some  pain killer but she said i have to wait another 2 hours! At that time the movement i felt in my stomach was actually a contraction. YES! So basically i felt the contraction just like a normal delivery process.

I stayed at the hospital for 2 night. The day after the surgery was the worst . Walking and moving for the first time is hard. I was really in pain. 3 Nurses and my Husband have to helped me. Then the next day was a breezed even the pain is there but not as horrible  

I started to breastfed my baby the day after. It was hard at first it was my first time, but the nurse helped alot.Staying at the hospital is a pain in the ass for me. Cant sleep in the same bed with my husband was a problem for me. I couldn't sleep at all So my Husband have to wait until i fell asleep then only he went back home.

My lil man.

C-Section is hard for me. The process is not painfull at all but the day after was a struggle. During this time, I was very lucky to have my Husband around. He helped me alot with me and Baby D. He washed my clothes, he fed me, he do all the things for me. My mom also helped alot with the baby.

The other day my Husband asked me wether i want another baby after i went for C-Section.  We shall see! 

:)