Im at a point in life where if I don't like something, or someone I would just leave. I wont spare time to explained myself to that person nor to anyone. But then again deep down I felt its rude to do such thing to people.
People misjudge me so many times and I don't care. That's your personal opinion. But what I don't understand is even if the both of us has conflict, why on earth you wanted to bring out all of my past, my present and also other family members into the picture?
If I have a problem with someone, then lets just discuss about it. You dont have thing pull other people into the picture as well. When you do that, it makes you look like a 4 year old girl even you're a grown woman.
We're are not in high school. But I don't know about the other person. If that's how that person see it, then I'm just going to wash my hands and walk away because I know at that point if I keep continuing arguing with a 4 year old, I need to lower my standards, and my mentality to become the same level as that particular person.
So, as of now I trim out all the ' unnecessary' drama and I've decided to walk away from their lives. I didn't felt guilty at all. Because all this time, I felt I've been terrorized emotionally and mentally.
I don't see the point on downgrading people and talking behind their back. Its soo high school. We're grown woman and please mature yourself before you make a fool of yourself.
" Kadang-kadang aku perlu 'give up' dengan seseorang dalam hidup aku bukan sebab aku Tuhan sesuka hati nak tolak atau tarik sesiapa mengikut kuasa aku, tapi aku terpaksa berbuat sedemikian sebab aku manusia yang lemah.
People misjudge me so many times and I don't care. That's your personal opinion. But what I don't understand is even if the both of us has conflict, why on earth you wanted to bring out all of my past, my present and also other family members into the picture?
If I have a problem with someone, then lets just discuss about it. You dont have thing pull other people into the picture as well. When you do that, it makes you look like a 4 year old girl even you're a grown woman.
We're are not in high school. But I don't know about the other person. If that's how that person see it, then I'm just going to wash my hands and walk away because I know at that point if I keep continuing arguing with a 4 year old, I need to lower my standards, and my mentality to become the same level as that particular person.
So, as of now I trim out all the ' unnecessary' drama and I've decided to walk away from their lives. I didn't felt guilty at all. Because all this time, I felt I've been terrorized emotionally and mentally.
I don't see the point on downgrading people and talking behind their back. Its soo high school. We're grown woman and please mature yourself before you make a fool of yourself.
Your just another person to me. Nothing more and Nothing less..All the hateful things that you said to me and my family and not even once you felt remorse about it, makes me sick to my stomach knowing that we used to be good frends. Well, might as well i wash my hands clean and move forward...
The beauty about life is, you loose one friend, GOD gives you few more new friends. Same goes with rezeki. Bersedekah harini walaupun sedikit, esok lusa, Tuhan lipat gandakan rezeki kita..
I like to share this quote from my dear friend Kak Jumie.it describe exactly how i feel." Kadang-kadang aku perlu 'give up' dengan seseorang dalam hidup aku bukan sebab aku Tuhan sesuka hati nak tolak atau tarik sesiapa mengikut kuasa aku, tapi aku terpaksa berbuat sedemikian sebab aku manusia yang lemah.
Dealing dengan manusia amat memenatkan. Deni perangai lagu ni, detu perangai lagu tu, Deni suka macam ni, detu suka macam tu.
Padahal, kita pun ada perangai macam ni, macam tu, suka ini dan suka itu.
So bila aku dah 'give up' bukan bermakna aku membenci tetapi aku sedang berdamai dalam hati aku sendiri. Lebih baik begini daripada aku berurusan dengan perasaan palsu dan di belakang aku berkata benda-benda tak baik tentang dia.
Time is getting shorter, aku nak spend time untuk benda yang happy-happy yang duk ada banyak kat dunia ini.
Buah pikiran petang dari saya."
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