Cracked......

Mostly now afew of my friends are either married and have kids. So selalu la dengar dia orang berkongsi cerite with each other. From diaper brand, milk, proper way to breastfeed and so on. But there's one time where i over heard they were talking about one of my friends whos about to get a divorce from her husband. Reason so, HIS PARENTS AND SIBLINGS!

The story is abit complicated and long to be writen here but lets just make it a short version. Her husband was the first son the family. So obviously his mother would prefer him more than the other siblings. Her husband is a mummy's boy. Her husband always favors his mother more that his own wife. Sepatutnya memang kene patuh dengan mak tapi sampai ke the wifes' doctor's appointment for her third trimester pun husband die lebihkan mak die sendiri dari his own wife. So dijadikan cerita that faitful day, as she was about to go to the doctors appointment,she collapsed. 

She was admitted but her mother in law was so furious and started blaming her for not being too carefull. To my suprised,as the mother in law was screaming n yelling at her, guess what the husband did?... SIT AND WATCH! This type of guy who i like to label them as,excuse my French, No Balls!!! or Bahasa Melayu nya ,Takde Telur!

The rest of the story i think is not appropriate to tell her since its involved someones personal life. I was abit worried, sad and i was disturbed by the story. Thank God she's doing well now. 

So what im about to say here now is, get to know with the person you about to settled down with. Like my mom used to say, when you're marrying a guy, you're most definitely marrying his family too.Especially his mom.

I have to say after hearing all this, im pretty scared. But not all the people have the same experienced but still im terrified. I came from a family who sees divorce as not an option AT ALL!.Somehow my mom and my dad had a very strong chemistry despite their differences. Same goes with my other aunties,uncles,cousin who are married. 

Things like this makes me feel like im so not prepare to get married. What if i end up getting a divorce. What will happen to me, him and my children? For sure i know i will mess up their life.Even i look modern but deep down im still a very traditional girl. SO yes... Divorce is not an option for me. Period.