Greetings to all...
Today, (1st July) marked our first month anniversary. We seldom celebrate monthly anniversary.Tomorrow ( 2nd July) marked our 3rd anniversary. Sounds confusing? hahaha... We became a couple on 2nd July 2011 and we got married on 1st June 2014.So we knew each other for 3 years.
This would be the longest relationship for the both of us.Yesterday after terawih, me and Dani had a heart- to heart conversation. First ever actually since we become husband and wife. We talked about our expectation and does our personal perception about marriage changes as we got married.
The first month of marriage does teaches us alot about each other. Before this, i sees him as a boy, mainly.Now i see him more as a man. A few weeks before we got married, i had a chat with his close cousin.He asked me not to expect so much from man when we got married. At first i was like " are you freaking kidding me?". But alhamdulillah, Dani is a very hands on man. He doesnt expect much since he knew im working and classes at night. But since we;re staying with my parents for a time being before my parents move to Seremban,my mom has help us alot. Mom cooks for him * Dani nows prefer my moms cooking over mine.*, and send him off to work on the afternoon.
I assumed that its going to take a while for me to train him. Since his mom is not around and his staying far away from his siblings and father , and he so used to the idea of being alone all the time. It was a shock to him as of now, anywhere he goes i will always be next to him. It take some adjustment for the both of us.
I think all married couple would understand it kot. But one thing ive noticed is that, " We always together"..
If i leave the house just to out to the bank withdrawing cash, he would come along.Before this im used to waking up at 9.30 am the latest. But now, i have to wake up early just to prepared breakfast for him. His not too fussy when in comes to food. Selagi benda tu dia makan, dia bedal aje.
Mak having a slight difficult time adjusting to Danis eating habit. Dani doesnt fancy on food that me and my family loves.Such as Salmon, crab, lamb and few other stuff.So since then, my mom would asked Dani what does he want to eat for lunch or dinner.
But among all of us, the one person who experience a serious culture shock is ABAH!.
All this time for the past 29 years his married to my mom and 28 years having a crazy daughter such as myself,his been surrounded with girls.Abah is literally surrounded by a bunch of Estrogen. Lols. Now since Dani become the son in law, abah was a happy person. He finally had someone to talked to about politic, sports and other things. I literally have to take turns to spend time with my OWN husband because abah wont let me have a moment alone with Dani.
All and all everything goes smoothly. Sometimes i do get irritated by him. Whenever he sees me tired or not in the mood, he will tried to make me laugh as always but once we got married, i do get irritated easily.
But above all, his a very hands on husband. Asking to do something, he will do it. Sama ada cepat or lambat.His normal routine nowadays woke me up and wait for me to get ready to go to work, then water my moms flowers, swipe the front porch, do laundry and off to his nap.
As for now, we 're just enjoying each others company. We do plan to have babies but not putting to much high hopes. If God decided that its the right time for us, alhamdulillah. If not, we still have plenty of time to practice.. *WINK*
Today, (1st July) marked our first month anniversary. We seldom celebrate monthly anniversary.Tomorrow ( 2nd July) marked our 3rd anniversary. Sounds confusing? hahaha... We became a couple on 2nd July 2011 and we got married on 1st June 2014.So we knew each other for 3 years.
This would be the longest relationship for the both of us.Yesterday after terawih, me and Dani had a heart- to heart conversation. First ever actually since we become husband and wife. We talked about our expectation and does our personal perception about marriage changes as we got married.
* 3 years ago *
I assumed that its going to take a while for me to train him. Since his mom is not around and his staying far away from his siblings and father , and he so used to the idea of being alone all the time. It was a shock to him as of now, anywhere he goes i will always be next to him. It take some adjustment for the both of us.
*5.25am in the morning. Cooking for him before im off to work.*
If i leave the house just to out to the bank withdrawing cash, he would come along.Before this im used to waking up at 9.30 am the latest. But now, i have to wake up early just to prepared breakfast for him. His not too fussy when in comes to food. Selagi benda tu dia makan, dia bedal aje.
* 5.04m, driving from Puchong to Ampang because he starts working at 5.50am*
* Before kawin, im aware that my husband loves to cook.. So i bought 2 cookbooks just in case he wants something different which i never tried before*
All this time for the past 29 years his married to my mom and 28 years having a crazy daughter such as myself,his been surrounded with girls.Abah is literally surrounded by a bunch of Estrogen. Lols. Now since Dani become the son in law, abah was a happy person. He finally had someone to talked to about politic, sports and other things. I literally have to take turns to spend time with my OWN husband because abah wont let me have a moment alone with Dani.
All and all everything goes smoothly. Sometimes i do get irritated by him. Whenever he sees me tired or not in the mood, he will tried to make me laugh as always but once we got married, i do get irritated easily.
But above all, his a very hands on husband. Asking to do something, he will do it. Sama ada cepat or lambat.His normal routine nowadays woke me up and wait for me to get ready to go to work, then water my moms flowers, swipe the front porch, do laundry and off to his nap.
As for now, we 're just enjoying each others company. We do plan to have babies but not putting to much high hopes. If God decided that its the right time for us, alhamdulillah. If not, we still have plenty of time to practice.. *WINK*
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