Negotiation with Baby D.

 Sometimes me and my mom rotated with each other on taking care of Baby D during the night. Baby D is not a grumpy baby. The only time that his putting tantrum is when he wanted to go to sleep and someone need to cuddle, hug, kiss and zikir to him. Means, at that particular time, no one can disturbs him and the person who's holding him at that time.

His turning 3 months old this coming March, his everyone's big boy now. Everyone just simply cant wait to meet him right after we announced i was pregnant with him 11 months ago. So since the day his out from my tummy, people kept on holding and hugging him. Hence i assumed his getting used to the idea of being hold all the time.

So last night, i returned from work slightly late and as i drove into the house, i saw my mom just bathed him. He was perfectly fine at that moment. As soon as he saw my face, he started crying.

' Waaaaaa!! Waaaaaaaaaaa!!! '

Then my mom said ' pantang nampak muke mummy mesti nak melalak '.

'Ala baby... Please give me afew minutes to rest. Mummy's very tired from work. Let me take a bath, eat and pumped first please. '

I was telling Baby D without talking to him directly. Telepathic way. Is there such thing?. I kept on telling him over and again. 

He just cant stop crying. I dont want to picked him up my mom told me not to do so all the time.Then the baby will get used too it. So i let him be. I pad him, smiled , kisses him and hoping for him would stop crying and go to sleep as it was his nap time. Then all of the sudden, he closed his eyes and there he was, sleeping.

I rushed up stairs, took a quick shower, pumped for afew minutes and then i run back down. Saw him still sleeping, i decided to watched the tv and laid next to him.. 5 minutes, his still sleeping. 10 minutes his still sleeping. 

Guess i started to get bored , ive decided to kiss his cheek. One time, still sleeping. Two time, still sleeping. Three times, erkk! erk!! Waaaaaaa!!!! Waaaaaaa!!!

He oped his eyes really wide and continue crying. 

' Look what you've done! His awake now. Padan Muke '.

Yes! I have this thing of disturbing him sleeping. By that moment there's no hope on asking him to go back to sleep. I picked him up, hug and kisses him as i always do. Still not working. I cradle him in my arms for 30 minutes non stop.He still crying. 

' Baby, please go back to sleep. I promise i wont disturb you sleeping. Please go back to sleep. you're a good boy right? you're mummys' handsome boy right?. Please go back to sleep sayang. Later, Mummy and ayah will take you to Sunway Piramid and jalan - jalan okay baby?'

Afew minutes later, he sleeps off. Finally!

Then i continue laid next to him while watching TV. As i was watching him sleeping, i have that feeling again. ' Disturb him sleeping'.

Sumpah kau memang tak serik!